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There's a question that I would like you, my knowledgeable readers and followers to offer your views. I believe the person that asked the question would appreciate your comments. All comments are welcome. I will offer my view in due course.
The question is:
If my girlfriend is the Will of God for me, why does she always want us to fornicate? Wouldn't the Will of God not demand for sex?
Your comments are welcome!
- Myss Lafunky
Notes: I recently joined a book club. Some of my girlfriends and sisters are in the process of reading a Christian novel titled 'Redeeming Love'; it's written by Francine Rivers. Francine is best known for her inspirational Christian novels. I plan to blog about the book once I have read/reviewed it.
God is one who would not go outside his word. The word of God says 'marriage is holy when bed is undefiled'. An individual demanding sex before marriage is not in the will of God as God would not request that one does something outside his word. God has exalted his word above his name n this bng d case wld not allow for a direction going outside the word to be given. God's will does nt n will nt permit sex before marriage. Still cont to seek his will in marriage as the girlfriend is nt in right footing n still needs to know God n his standard as contained in his word
ReplyDeleteThank you Anonymous for your comment. I quite agree with your view that it is NOT God's Will for an individual to demand sex before marriage, therefore, it may not necessarily be God's Will for the person in question.
DeleteThe questions that I would like the person to think about:
Is your girlfriend born again? Has she dedicated her life to Jesus Christ?
What led to your courting/dating?
Why is she demanding for sex? Is it to do with her past experience? Does she believe in sex (fornication) before marriage? Or is she struggling to stay pure in your relationship due to her lack of understanding of what love is?
I believe you should engage in the above discussion/questions with her, also ask God for direction, is there a role that God wants you to play in her life? What is God saying about your relationship to you?
Does she demand for other things that are not pure?
Do you believe if she has someone that she is accountable to, she would not demand for sex?
Do you believe if you continue your relationship, both of you may end up fornicating? If your answer is Yes, I believe you should end your relationship, do not compromise your faith, you must HONOUR God. However, before you make any decisions, both of you should seek counsel from a Christian married couple/marriage counsellors/your leader in church.
Thank you for this, I've always had issues with the statement "keep yourself pure till marriage" does that mean after marriage one should no longer stay pure. As the writer said people tend to take virginity for purity. Virginity is the state of one's genitals but purity is the state of one's mind in christ. Purity is a lifetime thing.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this, I've always had issues with the statement "keep yourself pure till marriage" does that mean after marriage one should no longer stay pure. As the writer said people tend to take virginity for purity. Virginity is the state of one's genitals but purity is the state of one's mind in christ. Purity is a lifetime thing.
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